There are a few things that you should probably do...Read, read, read, and then read some more on PTSD...Information is vital for you right now. PTSD is life long. It never goes away. We can cope with symptoms sometimes, and sometimes not. Learning is so important.
Sexual intimacy with an emotional attachment..... Sometimes NOT possible with us, if we haven't dealt with our issues. Closeness, trust, and emotional intimacy is extremely difficult. This is probably why he has been cheating. No it isn't an excuse, just an explanation.
This is your decision......If you don't feel comfortable then don't......You need to take care of you too. Boundaries will be needed if you decide to go back with him....Remember this is LIFE long.....You just don't get over PTSD...
Wendy |