Hi Jen
Does he have a mate that he feels close enough to so he can talk to them? If so, see if he is up to having him over for a blokey bonding session.
As harsh as it sounds if you are feeling pissed off at him going off at you just remind him that you are still here with him & if he doesn't get his shit together then he will know what it is like to be alone. (even just for the weekend) As much as he is hurting at the moment he needs to know that this isn't easy for you either as you are still recovering.

I really think you are amazing & I'm sending you big hugs!