I notice you keep saying war related PTSD. While our nighmares, flashbacks, and the sort vary due to what ever traumatized us PTSD symptoms are just that. We all get them. If you want specific information about symptoms I would not suggest going private, I would suggest going to those who know it best. Try posting your questions of this nature in PTSD Chat. How to handle and care for yourself the carer section is no doubt the way to go. But us with it know PTSD better than anyone.