Hi Andrea! Welcome to the forum. It's hard for me to help you, as I am the one with PTSD. However, my husband is also on this forum and frequently posts in the "Spouses" section; I'm sure if you post in that section he'll respond to you.

Hang in there and go to the appointment with your husband. Talk to the counselor, be open and honest, and don't be afraid to get a counselor for yourself if you think that will help. We all need a little help some times in our lives!