Hi Jen
Would your hubby speak to your son or is hubby to proud to off load to him? I know your son isn't up there with you but maybe he could chat to him on the phone? Just until he heard from his mate overseas?
Just trying to think of different things to try to take some pressure off you.
If your hubby is in anger mode, the last thing you need is to go back to the eggshell dance that we know & love. Maybe you should just have a day or two away for your sanity!