So here is another question. This whole thing of hers is recent in regards to letting it affect our relationship so openly. Last week was a big downswing, and Thursday showed a major upswing.

I want to talk to her more about what is going on and what I have learned depsperately...but know the timing must be right. Should I strike while the iron is hot, when she is in an upswing, or should I wait longer for her to kind of even out instead of using either side of the emotional extreme?

My instincts tell me to make a grand romantic gesture and take advantage of her good mood and "reaching out"...but I don't know if that would be just as bad as doing some desperate action while she is in a downswing. You know?