Evie,
I have a question......If the shoe were on the other foot so to speak.....and it was Jim, Kathy, or another family member in your shoes...Would you consider them a burden????? Would you consider them BAD for everything that they had gone through and the way that they reacted????
Let up on yourself.....Be supportive to yourself for a change....Get back to the positive side of things, and yourself....
Love ya,
Wen |