She Cat, it's not a stupid question at all. I can't answer it, but I know where you're coming from. I've been on a few Yahoogroups for CPTSD and one I was banned from because the woman running it was, quite frankly, a power freak. She wasn't doing the group as much for the people to help them as she was for the power. I can't explain it right here, but maybe in another thread.

Don't worry She Cat, you're not alone.