Hi Jodie,
I'm nugget's wife, Jodee. My first piece of advice is that you must make sure that you see someone to help you deal with what is going on with your situation. Believe me, it helps!
You are off to a great start by trying to learn as much as you can. Come on over to the carers section, we are a friendly bunch!
Take care of yourself & hope to hear from you soon!