Dear Kathy,

My heart goes out to you for the pain that you have in your heart today, and probably everyday for the last 5 months......

I never know what to say to someone that has lost a loved one. Saying I'm sorry just seems soooooo I don't know empty I guess.

I am not a religious person either, but I do believe in God. I believe that he hears our prayers, and he has the answers to our questions...He will reveal them in his own time. I don't have any answers for you either.....I can't imagine the pain that you are going through...

All we can do when we lose someone is know that in due time, we will be united with them again.....I know that doesn't help you now....

I will keep you in my prayers.....I hope that you can find peace in Brians death, and not have your questions go unanswered for too long....

All my best,

Wendy