Arashi,

If she was abused, in any way, she will have major boundary issues. This is something you will want to have a discussion (or many) about if you can communicate at that level with her. Her boundaries might be really high (like mine, I can't even stand someone standing behind me) or they might be really low (where there are little to no boundaries, this is commonly where cheating comes into play) or she might fluctuate from one to the other.

What ever you do, if she says NO, listen to it. Once you cross that boundary you will have a hell of a time earning trust back.

bec

btw, if she wasn't abused this can still apply due to the PTSD it's just to a lesser level.