also some stuff like Brian is still very fresh.. I think sometimes especially with a death its hard sometimes to hear other people's sympathy as it tends to bring the sadness bubbling up so to speek. And with so much else on her mind as well right now it must be emotionally overwelming. everyone needs friends though so it must be hard for her sometimes to want to check in to see how people are doing on here that she cares about. Hope it gets better for her!