Yes absolutely correct, and we have known it for some time, we've observed Evie and Jacob becoming worse for not talking about it. I especially should know the importance of talking, however when it comes to the death of my child I simply have so much trouble. It is ever so difficult. You would think it would less painful as time goes on, though I feel it has almost become worse. However we must face things, mustn't we? None of us is going to be very happy in life if we continue avoiding the issue.

I believe we owe Evie an apology for "blaming" this matter on her alone and on her PTSD issues, when the reality is she is simply grieving, and reacting to the fact that none of us are dealing as we should with Brian's death. Jim and I have decided the family should attend grief counseling once more, and we will begin in a couple of weeks. I am not certain why we quit to begin with.

I do thank you all for contributing to this thread.