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Originally Posted by anthony  Let me just say this, sex stopped between her and my father when Greg died. I only know this because dad told me. That is the level it affects, and then the affects of their relationship issues because of his death are constantly ongoing. |
Well Jim and I do not have any such intimacy problems.
However it is not something to joke about; I do very much understand how that could occur, we certainly were quite "apart" from each other in many ways during the first few weeks. I understand precisely how your mother feels. I did not even want to continue living, those first few weeks. Thankfully though that aspect eventually returned to normal. I do feel for your parents Anthony, and for your entire family. It does not sound like a happy existence at all, certainly not how I want to spend the next 20 years of my life. Perhaps that is a "wake-up call" for me, that no matter how difficult it is now to speak of Brian, it is far better than not speaking about it and continuing to be unhappy for years to come.
Not to mention, yes it makes Evie happy, and we want to see her well. We do still have her and our other children and grandchildren's happiness to consider, as well as our own.
Oh and thank you Nicolette and Bec for those very kind words.