Please read the above quote from myself.. I'm quite sure I know who this is about.. thank you.

Also, please do not tell me what I want to do.. as it's crying and not screaming. Mind reading and assuming gets us into all sorts of trouble.

Now.. Well Ryan and Nic both feel that it is a good thing. Neither are worried about Matt, they are worried about me. So I need to work out a plan for myself while Matt is in there.

And I DO need to discuss the emotions I feel behind all of this, as I'm a sufferer too and if I don't talk about it.. it's going to affect my ability to reason all this out and make the best decision possible for Matt.

Thank you both of you.. I'm hearing repeatedly that this sounds like a good thing. I've already arranged to ask my questions, so I've got that covered. I just need to relax about it right now.. haha

BTW: I have a new respect for the carers that have had to deal with hospitalizing their loved ones. What a scary and emotional task this is. You all make it look a lot easier than it really is.

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