Thanks for the advise Jods!! I love your #2 reason! and i agree!
and desert4now i totally understand where you are coming from... my husband has refused to go to counseling for a couple of years now until i told him that i was tired of all the things he was doing and all the things he was saying and the way he was acting... he has known for a long time that he had this disorder and would blame everything on it, but it got to the point where i told him i was not going to believe him anymore (tough love) and if he wanted me to help him and wanted to him himself he would have to give me a doctors note saying that he really did have a problem...well just to prove to me that he did have PTSD he has now started counseling and has realized that its worth it... i hope it makes sense and this helps...maybe you can try it...good luck!