Firstly Andrea, here is the link to 2quilt's article:

Social Security Disability

Secondly, congratulations and good on you for putting your foot down. Very courageous of you, a definite step in the right direction! Well done. It is so very important to not put up with abuse of any kind. Well done too regarding the support group he is now attending, that is very positive. I hope things continue to move forward for you both. Take care and do keep us updated!