I'm glad you posted too! Sometimes that's the hardest part - figuring out where the heck to start
I hope you get as much benefit from this group as you give to the rest of us. I have a super husband much like your super wife (why he stays I'll never know!) But this is a "family" issue.
Please stay in touch, even if it's just to pop in and say, "Hi, I'm having a crappy day"

~Boo-Damphir