Ahh Jen,
I sympathize, really, I do!!! I guess you could always try the "do what you want, deal with it yourself!" approach? Always worked with Tonka! And as for the reason you looked after yourself and he wont?..... my opinion is that you knew you had to be back on top of the world ASAP cause you are the one used to being the only one in control. AND you're a mother... we tend to know what happens if we are not around to cope with everything!!!! As for men...... well, they are more used to being invincable.... and sooking to us when they are sick.
Personally, I'd let him do his worst.... then dob on him to his doctor when he wonders why his bloods are too high!!!
MWA!!! look after yourself girl!!!
(its like having a damn kid to deal with aint it???!!!)
Ryair xxxxxxxxxx
P.S Hope you got a smile outa this!!