Well, a brief update on Evie as I have not commented on her for a few days. She is still recovering from her surgery, and needing extra rest as she has been fainting and feeling light headed. She has been on the forum a bit again, which is good to see, and enjoying her new blog very much. The best news is her mood continues to be largely a positive one, she becomes tearful thinking about Brian but so do we all and that is a healthy part of grieving. Her anger has dissipated so dramatically since the surgery that we really have to wonder if the tumour was indeed affecting her brain. She still has the usual PTSD iritability however seems much more in control of herself. Additionally her anger on the forum has dramatically declined, and she is practicing being assertive and doing a very good job of it! So overall we are very pleased and hopeful. We won't know for certain about the brain aspect until she has her next MRI in a few weeks' time.