Hi Jen

As i have mentioned before my brother in law is type 2 and although he has suffered one massive stroke from it, sadly he still hasn't learned his lesson from it. He'll eat an entire "sugar free" pie and forget all about the carbs in it or he'll have seconds or thirds of pasta.
He also forgets to take his insulin and I've never seen him check his sugars.
I don't know what advise I can give you except to keep nagging him about it and if he complains about your nagging just tell him that you don't want him dead.
Hope everything work out for you and him.
Cole