Tammy, could you refresh my memory and tell me who is supposed to be paying the costs? Military, work etc? (sorry)

The eye movement therapy would be EMDR.

As for whether or not he is telling the truth, it sounds plausible to me; however, the only people who can determine that is you and him.

Are you pressuring him to go to work? Is that why this is an issue?

Also, as to not being involved in his therapy, that is rather normal. He would need therapy sessions on his own. It's common to bring in a spouse after a few sessions and then just have the spouse touch base with the therapist once in awhile, not have the spouse there for every session. In fact, having a spouse present all the time would hinder therapy, as us sufferers want to protect those we love so we wouldn't open up in therapy if we had our loved ones in toe every time.

Sorry I can't be more helpful, at this time.
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