Well Tammy I've only just finished reading your thread in its entirely, and I must say well done to you for your support of Alex and your willingness to educate yourself. Really there is not much else I can say; Anthony has given you excellent advice. However I am most impressed that as a mother of young children you are so level headed and capable of supporting your husband through all this. Very well done. It is refreshing to see such a good attitude. Good luck to you and Alex, with whatever he decides.