Agree with Kathy Tam, and I know you personally so I can definitely back up that statement. Alex needs to admit where he is wrong, when his is wrong, put his pride back in check and sometimes fight past pride and male ego to just talk it out. He did it on course, no reason he can't continue it if he chooses too. He is simply choosing not to talk honestly about what he feels, instead show anger. Put the iceberg of emotion back in front of him again!