I hope she weathers through all right. I have no answers for you Kathy. I do find it interesting that there is a pattern in her behavior before she has the flashbacks that warn you it's coming. I've wondered if I have behavior patterns before mine, but have no one that can tell me!

Try not to feel guilty, if you can. Triggers can be just about anything and really, we can only avoid them so much. If she's hitting triggers, it means she's got more trauma work to do. It's not your fault.

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