Thread: Does Anyone Struggle With Saying No?
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Old 20-10-2007, 09:00 AM
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KT,

I don't think that you are Hard Wired to be submissive. You probably just feel safer being in that role for now. Being assertive is foreign to you, and change is very difficult for all of us.

Why not just grab the bull by the horns and TRY saying no the next time you are faced with it. Just blurt it out without thinking about it. It might just get you over that initial shock....
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