Thanks guys....I am trying to process this but it is still really hard. I know my issues are troublesome but he has been so nice to me and again it was totally unexpected. It just hurts right now. I cannot beleive that I trusted enough to let someone in and I thought everything was OK....i know he is grieing the loss of his brother but he went from "I want you in my life" to "you are not ready to be in a relationship" it is hard to trust already and this just made me feel so broken.