The part that sucks about his Pand, is that when we open ourselves to another we risk getting hurt. There is nothing we can do about that.
Realize that just because this relationship ended, does not mean that it's because your broken or unworthy. Maybe he was unworthy of you! Plus, people end relationships all the time for various reasons. Chances are your PTSD has had little to do with it!
I know how painful this is, but don't slam the door on dating and men just yet. I'm single but willing to try dating if the right type of man comes along. Trust is something others must earn from me. I see no difference in this for dating. They must earn it by being consistent, caring and capable.
I'm in the same boat as you.. we can work on this together!
So how you doing today?
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