Neela, I am going thru the same things with my dh right now. I haven't heard from him in two days now(We do not live together at the moment-dr's decision.). When he completely shuts me out is when it hurts the most I think. I worry about him because he shuts himself off in a hole where noone can reach him. I know he isn't responding to anyone because his voice mailbox is so full it won't take anymore messages.

I hope you can get thru this with him. It is obvious you really do care about him. But is it enough for the both of you?