Thanks, Kathy.

Yes, it was by the doctor's orders. He had grabbed me when we were in an argument. He had not been diagnosed yet. Grabbing me really messed him up for a while. He also has trouble with impulse control. I think it is like that stress button attached to Mr. Parson's cup demostration.(Btw, that article helped immensely.)

I explained to my children what it's like for him and for my oldest to not constantly be in his ear. She talks entirely too much sometimes. I used the cup demonstration to explain to them how full everything is and if one stressful thing is added how it runs over. So we have to be kinda careful not to run his cup over. Also, if he doesn't want to play then leave him alone. He will play when he feels he can give them his full attention. They both seemed ok with that.

I really do think I am going to try to get in a support group. There are several bases around so surely there will be one nearby.

For now, I thank you all for the information you have given me because it has truly helped more than anyone could know. Unfortunately(because I wish noone had to go thru this), I know I'm not alone in all this.