Ah, thank you for answering. That does make sense. It is a good thing thing too, if he is having impulse control problems. My brother-in-law was violent with his family on occasion however we were unaware until it was too late and his wife did not tell us either. It ended terribly. It is good you are being more careful and thinking of yourself and your children also, as well as your husband. Yes the PTSD Cup explanation is very helpful, isn't it? It's one of the best articles here in my opinion. Good on you for reading the articles and applying them, many carers do not. Much luck to you finding a support group, and as always you are most welcome to post here anytime.