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Originally Posted by veiled He placed the book "beauty fades, dumb is forever" in the middle of the bed for her and told me. "mom, make sure you read that book too so you can make a test for her. He said that way you know if she read it and comprehends it. Any question she misses have a punishment for it set up in place already and let her know. And if she misses them make her reread it until she gets it right." |
Veiled,
I am actually going to say, that very people here with childhood trauma bring things like this up as part of their childhood trauma, where siblings set them up for a fall, and parents condone it. If you did this, that demonstrates your action to your daughter as condoning your sons abuse towards her, because remember, trauma is what we as individuals see it as, not what others perceive it as.
I bet your not going to like that... but if that is the case, then that is whats happening, and these exact things are sitting on adults minds here that are trying to rid themselves of childhood trauma.
An interesting learning curve for us all maybe I think!!!