Very well done Jods... a true judge of character... I wouldn't worry about your husband with the little one, because with PTSD we often relate better with children, it actually helps us manage our own stress levels, depression and anxiety, because children are consuming, and it forces us to get back into life again. This is very well known with PTSD sufferers and children... children don't exert the adult pressures upon us, hence we can cope with their childhood ways, and find them quite therapeudic at the same time.