Welcome to the forum, Melvin.

Reading some of things that your former therapists said to you is beyond outrageous! My first therapist told me that my diagnosis of PTSD was wrong since my traumas weren't bad enough and when I told her how I was feeling, she told me that I thought I was just feel that way. Needless to say she's my former therapist!

My suggestion for finding a therapist who specializes in trauma and PTSD is to call local VA hospitals or medical facilities. Also try a local university psychology/psychiatry departments, too. I just opened the phone book for these two resources and started calling and after a number of calls found a therapist who specializes.

Good luck.
Lisa