Update: Ok. So I'm a bigger idiot than I ever thought I would be.

He has been living with another woman since Aug. Found out this morning. I called her to ask what was going on with them because I had seen some text messages. Well, he'd been totally lieing to her too. It's just a big ole mess. I actually feel sorry for her because she got drug into all this. But it is over with them. She packed up his stuff and gave it to his boss-who knew it was going on and both are military. She told him she never wanted to talk or see him again. She was crying really badly so I think I believe her, but of course I am having a hard time trusting anyone at the moment.

She didn't even know about his PTSD. That right there is just wrong.

I hate that he did this to our girls. They don't know that he went out of town with her twice-the same distance as it would've taken him to get here-instead of coming home to see his daughters. So uncool.

Right now I can't stand him. Hopefully, eventually I can tolerate him. And to think I was willing to go thru all the crap with him.

I guess now I need to know parenting stuff.

Is it wrong of me to ask for supervised overnight visits for now? I'm just a little afraid of his impulse control issues.