Welcome Frankie, lovely to have you! My brother-in-law was also in Rwanda during the genocide and had PTSD as a result. As Bec said it is most refreshing to hear positive and hopeful comments. I am delighted you care so deeply for your man, that is no doubt a great blessing and help for him already. Do please visit the Carers section also as Bec suggests. I am a Carer myself, and I look forward to chatting with you more.