Anthony,
Thanks for your honesty about being a stay at home Dad. Hubby has told me that he does feel comfortable with the house hubby role, for now.

Kerrie-Ann
Thanks for the heads up.
I did the old pros & cons list before making the decision & many chats with hubby about the changes we will have to make.
My boss is aware of our situation & has promised that she will do what she can to work around things if needed. The bonus is that I'm going back as a casual so if things don't pan out I can leave without being locked into the old put in a months notice.
My parents live near by so if the s***t does hit the fan we know they are only a phone call away to help us if we need respite.

The one thing I've learnt since hubby's accident is that you are better off keeping your REAL friends & family members that are willing to let you be & offer their support when you need it & if there is any dead wood weighing you down that you have to get rid of them.
Positive people around you help to keep you positive & catch you if you fall. The negitive ones will just try to drag you down with them & will kick you when your down.
I've pruned my tree & it feels good!