While this post is more about m/f relationships, it brings up a subject that can apply to anyone.

I have no clue how to maintain a relationship/friendship. I will allow no one to get close to me at all. I have forced all the people who have dare to get close to me to quit trying to be my friend. I do n ot know how to be a friend and everone scares me.

I have had friends in the past but only until I felt like they wanted something from me and then I cut all communication and never spoke or saw them again. I would not answer the phone or return messages left on my machine. They would eventually give up on me--so angry and some with hurt feelings--but my sense is OK good I don't have to deal with him/her any more.

In a nut shell I can't handle nor do I want anyone in or near my life. To me this is so sad but try as I might I just can't let people in.

Even try to get close to me and I will cut you off. Precise and to the point GET AWAY FROM ME!!! Anyone with imput on this one is well! HERC