my kid's are 3 and 15 months.. its hard because my husband is my would. we cant do anything because he hates to leave the house he is looking out the window if he hears cars or hears people. we had only none each other for about a month be4 it all happened so i don't think i have ever seen the real him... he just don't seem to think about us at all unless we are fighting then he says he but u no i love u but he don't seam to.. he has never even got me a birthday gift or anything 4 mothers day its like he takes it all for granted dose this have anything to do with ptsd? i don't no