Thanks for those ideas Kathy he still says he is ok to work that one day after talking to him about it.
The loudest alarm clock may wake him but doesnt get his butt out of bed.
He has tried going to bed early it doesnt seem to help.
Selfish you say I dont think a person is selfish if he only has to work one day a week and when the wife comes home from work he is sitting in front of the tele the wife cooks tea the wife gets the clothes of the line the wife feeds the animals!!
Sorry had to get that out oh thats right he has an illness
Life goes on and I cant see it changing much at all for me for a while especially with owning a business. But I enjoy the business and can cope but a little help would be nice?