Very valid points Bec and Evie, thank you for sharing them. Bec, I apologize if I personally appeared insensitive in this matter, it was not my intent. What you said about sleep was very valid and I suppose I do need to be less judgemental in some instances. I admit it does get rather frustrating at times, however I often try to impress upon others that PTSD is an illness, so I should likely take my own advice! Evie you also make a good point in that we are all morning people.

Jen, I believe that is a good idea, getting someone for mornings only if possible. I can't imagine one morning a week would be terribly costly for you. To reiterate, it really is unfair to you to otherwise in my opinion, though your husband is ill he does have options in this case and simply refuses to take them! He is putting you in a difficult spot and that is the part I believe is selfish.