nyc/jodie: Thanks for posting. It's nice to know that i can relate to someone on the board who is going through something much similar to me. I'm sorry to hear things are so rough. It has been a long time since i've posted in this thread, so i'm hoping things have improved for you/both of you?? Please share an update..and i hope you were able to go to the therapist meetings with him, or alone, and were able to get a good insight on your situation. How does the situation stand with you both currently? And how are you feeling?