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Originally Posted by hercules3of4  I have had friends in the past but only until I felt like they wanted something from me and then I cut all communication and never spoke or saw them again. I would not answer the phone or return messages left on my machine. They would eventually give up on me--so angry and some with hurt feelings--but my sense is OK good I don't have to deal with him/her any more. |
Herc: The sentence i bolded in your post made me understand something my ex did a lot when we were together and also does now. Sometimes i would call him and text him and he would take forever to return my call or text me back..sometimes he wouldn't do it at all until i had some sort of anger in me and expressed it to him, and he would tell me he was sorry and he was just busy.
Until i had a conversation with him a few months ago on IM, i mentioned the fact that he hates being on the phone, never called me when he was home stateside, and that he barely responded to text messages and would rather be on the internet talking to me on IM, than chat to me on the phone...
His response was that "Okay..that is something that you will NEVER understand, okay."
I guess, your post confirmed why it was something i could never understand. Thanks for sharing that.