Vera: Thanks for sharing. I see that you say that you feel like you put people out if you call on them in your times of need when you don't feel so good, and when you are feeling okay, that you let them in. I know it can be hard for a sufferer to trust someone, but if in your heart you feel like the person is trustworthy and they are proving that to you and confirming that you can trust them...please go to them.

It's not about putting us carers out. We love and care for people like you very much and we really want to be there for you when you need us the most, otherwise we would not be constantly trying to reassure you that we are not here to hurt you, but here to just love you and be there when you need us. Our persistance is what should tell you that we care deeply for you, and no matter how hard you try to push us away...we are still there whenever you need us.

My ex told me that he feels like he is taking me down with him, and he doesn't want to do that to me. That broke my heart. It saddened me that he felt like he will be bringing me down with him, and that i don't deserve to feel like that because of him. But i have so much love and care for him, that i would make myself strong enough to deal with it. I know at times it can be challenging...but trust in those who love you, Vera. We are not here to hurt you, we are here to help you any way we can...just give us a sign, or some direction, and we will be more than happy to do/say something that brings you higher.