Great post Kathleen. Great comments as well. As a carer your always going to stuff up sometimes. Did that this morning myself, and I sorely regret it. However. Can't honestly fathom doing that sort of thing on purpose. Christ. Makes me ill just thinking about it. If that's anyone's intent here, get the hell away from your sufferer. Their better off without you. And. Instead of coming here constantly to whinge about how shitty life is, why not get up off your ass and try to improve the situation. Take responsibility. Be a MAN or a WOMAN, as the case may be.

Jim.