Nie, Nic has her own problems with her mother; without divulging her own personal circumstances, Nic is at a level superior to her mother, her mother wants to continually drag her down to her level, so she feels in control of the mother daughter relationship. Standing up for yourself and being honest with yourself are good traits. If your above a level of immaturity, that is a positive, never allow yourself to be brought down to a lower level when you have fought so hard to rise above in the first place.