Oh, I responded before I read your post in its entirety. Maybe he is just tired as he does work so much and it is a penis thing. Guys are way more off than us. Hee hee. Maybe it was just bad timing, it is just I do not get that luxury. When it happens it is so rare I just want to grab and share it. I did explain to him after the fact (my fit) and he followed up but it was like a waterboarding. That did not help. He then tried to get me to come back to our bed as I have not been there this week. Was not happening now. Now I am not sure if I am reacting normal or being PTSDy. If that makes sense.