We have been married 26 years when hubby has good days I used to get a little bit excited I think just to lap it up and enjoy those good days. But when the shit hits the fan with him I am cranky and dissapointed which is quite normal the mood changes wear thin after a while.
When hubby feels like a cuddle and I dont I really sometimes have to force myself to show affection to him when he feels ok when I have had days of having him depressed!
I hope this isnt confusing?