Hi Jen. I have read what Veiled and Jods said re finances which make sense but I wanted to focus on this point. Anthony has said to me that he cannot go back to Townsville (Military city) due to all the triggers let alone live there ever again. He said the best thing for him was getting out of there as the constant reminders of the military were too much for him to cope with. Anthony went back to Townswville for a PTSD course a year or so ago and said when he came back he was sick for a week.

I would like to see Townsville but now know I would have to go alone if I went.

Moving may not be an option but I think the military triggers would not be helping anything.