Thanks guys yes I think the finance problem will always be an issue with him he always worries about money?
Yes Nicolette even yesterday he was helping me lay some tiles and he was being really fussy and he said being in the Army made him be like that as in having perfect straight lines etc?
I said you are not in the Army any more so you dont have to be like that but as he said when it gets drummed into you all the time it becomes a part of you!